Answer is they would become us…fighting over baby diapers, feeds and burps…
Where is the passion, intensity, need to be with each other all the time? Now why do we just want to be alone for sometime…or be with friends and not think of married life, baby and duties for sometime.
Love changes forms, it growss, there are times when you would feel that its almost invisible
Does marriage kills love?
I think no..it kills romance out of love.
Love is still there, infact its more deep rooted than before but it changes forms, it grows from an overt expression to a wink in public, a hug in two days, holding hands before going to sleep or may be having the liberty to just yell at each other when tired, or just being alone for sometime….this all is love
From romantic poems to baby lullabies, from spooning to sleeping unconscious on each side of bed…from talking thousand times at length to just saying hello twice a day…from laughing uncontrollably to smiling at each other on baby’s antics….from wanting to be together all the time to happy with just the thought of you being around….from insecurity of relationship to complete security of togetherness…This all is love!!!!!!!!!!!
Where is the passion, intensity, need to be with each other all the time? Now why do we just want to be alone for sometime…or be with friends and not think of married life, baby and duties for sometime.
Love changes forms, it growss, there are times when you would feel that its almost invisible
Does marriage kills love?
I think no..it kills romance out of love.
Love is still there, infact its more deep rooted than before but it changes forms, it grows from an overt expression to a wink in public, a hug in two days, holding hands before going to sleep or may be having the liberty to just yell at each other when tired, or just being alone for sometime….this all is love
From romantic poems to baby lullabies, from spooning to sleeping unconscious on each side of bed…from talking thousand times at length to just saying hello twice a day…from laughing uncontrollably to smiling at each other on baby’s antics….from wanting to be together all the time to happy with just the thought of you being around….from insecurity of relationship to complete security of togetherness…This all is love!!!!!!!!!!!
wow...so romantic...
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Ahhhh. God forbid. If that had happened, soon they would have been at each others' throats and talked of your family and my family.....endless trouble.
ReplyDeletePoets and story tellers are wise. In almost all love stories the main characters die and become legendary.
:-) I know.. Daily grinds of being married would have killed the legends and their stories!!
DeleteI somehow knew the answer even before reading this article. This somehow is true that marriage kills the romance or I would better say that it suppresses it. May be because of additional responsibilities which come along with the marriage or may be because we forget to provide the space to our partner. I believe, if we learn to respect the personal space of each other, romance can still be kept alive. Just my views.
ReplyDeleteAnimesh agree with you. The "in your face..romance" may die but the love becomes more deep rooted..It just changes forms!
DeleteYou are very correct, Sfurti. The irony is that people don't realize this change of form and accuse each other of ' no love' :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Diwakar. I am glad you understood my point :)
DeleteI am just looking for a "like" button for your comment Diwakar :)
DeleteThat sounds more like a mellowed love. But, interestingly, your post seems to suggest that the mellowing happens once Romeo and Juliet get busy changing baby diapers! :)
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